Learning to Relate to Relations is how I name the process of relearning and getting to know my own family members. I have moved back after an adult life, 45 years away from my own home town.
There can be many factors and childhood experiences in the past. I have many of those and many broken relations with remaining siblings that are still alive. The joy is learning to live and love and be as healthy as I can with my own experiences. The joy is learning to be in relationship with my grown children and being in relation with my two remaining Sibling. One sibling and Parents have passed away and yet those relationships also can be healed in a sense with in my own self. The new book and livestream of HELLO AGAIN by Daniel and Gabor Mate is such a huge resource for me. Not something to be shared with those relations I need to heal but for my sake.
I hope this is helpful for you too! My prayer is that I may be Authentic, Loving and Growing as Long as I live!